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  1. fotoman1133406

    From all my postings and listening...

    I think I've come up with what I want. I know, my Lois is gone, but always in my heart. I guess, when it comes down to it, walking through lifes adventures "hand-in-hand". I am a "black and white" kind of a guy. I saw Lois's add, back in '92 and I liked what I read. We connected, I...
  2. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    Lois would do that(T.V. and radio on) while I was gone; work, running errands, etc.---but she knew I'd be back. I do, yes it fills the house with noise...but I know---she never will be back. No matter what...the" void "is still there.
  3. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    All the above. I'm sitting here in this empty house...and feel like the last being on the planet. I have the t.v.'s going and the radio blasting...only to "drown out the deafening silence" of being alone. There's an empty wall in one of the rooms---that's how I feel. Empty. I am reminded...
  4. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    Said than done. The fourth letter I received from her, back in late '92, had in it hope. She had all the "fixins" for a home,,,but not the guy. Now the "shoe is on the other foot". Now...? I'm looking at "all the fixins" and am in tears. No hope...
  5. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    Well, no actually. I was the optimist in our marriage, so the "memories" were always a part of our daily lives...at least in my case. Lois, on the other hand, was the realist. Memories had to be brought out to her again and again. So, my thirteen yrs with her had a "rosier" outlook for me than...
  6. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    I've posted a picture of us, just thought those of you that knew her, might want to see us and remember her again for the good lady that she was. I want you guys to know that she will always be in my heart and always loved. I am trying to get through each day, two weeks and four days now...
  7. fotoman1133406

    Here we are

    This was taken on our first Christmas, '93. She was just as beautiful the day I met her as she was when she passed away. I miss her very much and know she is in a better place without pain.
  8. fotoman1133406

    How we...

    And why we became us. Late 1992, I saw Lois's ad in "DIMENSIONS" magazine. After many letters and phone calls, I told her on the 4th call we were going to marry. She said I was nuts(I am). On Valentines Day, I moved from Washington State to Florida to be with her. We stayed together in...
  9. fotoman1133406

    My sons advice...after my loss

    Therapy comes in all forms. Sitting in a "public place" like "DENNY'S" and talking...whether it be about my heartache of my wife gone, the weather, my home team"THE SEAHAWKS" and "MARINERS" and "SUPER SONICS" or whatever else. I am still getting help. Right? I am not looking for anything like a...
  10. fotoman1133406

    My sons advice...after my loss

    Grief groups are ok, but sitting down one-on-one, and having a cup of coffee and talking...that's what he meant. But being able to call someone and ask them to have coffee and talk would be of help too. There are times when you just need to talk, and have someone there to talk with over...
  11. fotoman1133406

    My sons advice...after my loss

    My sons advice is to get in again with the ladies. Too soon I say. But I'm going to look at it this way...can never have enough friends. I am in West Palm Beach, Fl. My profile has my e-mail. Feel free to contact me. Sitting in at a place like "DENNY"S" having coffee...
  12. fotoman1133406

    My son's answers to my loss

    My son agrees with what my late wife made me promise. Go on with life, it'll hurt, but go on. Yes remarry. You are not one that is/was meant to be alone. But I am to "hook up" with "the ladies" now. Being alone only makes the loneliness and hurt more painfull. I told him, she's only been gone 11...
  13. fotoman1133406

    O.K. what do I do?

    It has now been 10 days from my wifes passing, being alone in this house is a big pain. Being alone is not for me, I hate it. Hearing from you guys helps. Thanx. My first day back to work was not all that good. I was scared going to, nobody to talk with and very empty house. Coming back...
  14. fotoman1133406

    Jewelry of remembrance

    I'm looking for a cross to carry my late wife's ashes(remains) in. I had heaven when she was alive...and now that she's gone, I figure the next best is to carry her next to my heart in a cross. Please help.
  15. fotoman1133406

    Issues after a spouses passing?

    I'm still in the" I-don't-know" area. I agree with the memories... As for finding someone, well.?
  16. fotoman1133406

    Best online dating?

    The word dating in your question is a very hard one to see, let alone answer. As you may have seen, as of tomorrow(Tues)it will be one week from her passing. I am not the "dating type" of person. I am commitment oriented. The going out, the little games...not for/or me. The day-to-day...
  17. fotoman1133406

    Issues after a spouses passing?

    Two things are very much apparent to me...the silence is deafening and the every day things I miss. Even when she was in one room and I another, all was right. She was right in one thing though, I'm meant to be with someone always. She could always read me.
  18. fotoman1133406

    Issues after a spouses passing?

    As some of you have already seen, I lost my wife this last Tues. I'm asking from those of you that were in long term relationships, ours was 13 yrs. this month, what I'm in for? I've got a lot of "conflicting" feelings going on. Panic, fear, empty, ect. What's "normal"?
  19. fotoman1133406

    Who here has had a successful internet relationship?

    Wet met 13 yrs ago thanx to "N.A.A.F.A." and "DIMENSIONS". and married. Sadly this last Tues my wife Lois passed away. I don't know about you guys but in a way I think maybe this might count as both "on-line" and successfull. I sure do.
  20. fotoman1133406

    A passing has taken place.

    Yes she did. She knew both you and Ruby very well. She was an R.N. from W.P.B., Fl. Had been to several coventions, was in a fashion show in "94. in D.C.
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