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  1. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    I wouldn’t really say that I suffer though. I can’t think of a situation that I encounter, where I want to say something about fat women and I don’t. I don’t go out of my way to make comments unless they are appropriate to the situation.
  2. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    Without being condemned for it… You can ignore others response. But people love expressing their opinions. I don’t think anyone has much advice on how to do it.
  3. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    “Lovely” can back fire. It is a word someone who wants to say “I love you” but isn’t ready to say it yet. It can weird women out. I was under the impression you were having issues getting into relationships, but might have misread something. If you are not close to dating or dating the woman...
  4. fuelingfire

    Only in the FA World

    My girlfriend and I frequently talk about size acceptance and FAs. The other day she told me that she was the fattest girl in her high school, years ago. My response was, “Well, I feel strangely honored.” She smiled and kissed me after that. This felt out of place to me, and it took me a few...
  5. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    There seems to be two topics here. 1. You want to be in a relationship. 2. You want to say how you feel about fat women. I think this thread has talked about the second topic a great deal. The best complement you can give a woman (including fat women) is “You look beautiful!” There is no...
  6. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    In my opinion, a lot of people have given you very good advice. I don't want you to take what I am saying/asking as an insult. Could you give us more examples of your goals? Or experiences? I feel like you might be unintentionally misleading us or not asking the right question. You do not...
  7. fuelingfire

    How/Why am I Expected to Hold it in?

    I read the majority of the replies. My advice, get better at flirting. Flirt with a fat woman, if she likes you and is interested she will bring up her size at some point, that is the opening you are waiting for, in my experience. And don't go over board with it, on first mention. Saying...
  8. fuelingfire

    Small Fats

    I am just breaking down you post into smaller quotes because there is a lot to comment on. IMO most thin people complaining about being fat is, them fishing for complements. In my head I am always thinking “Honey, please!” in a sassy manner.
  9. fuelingfire

    Small Fats

    In regards to the original post. I think a lot of FAs do find the “small fat” attractive. Though I don’t really have a defined set range for what I find attractive. For me the minimum starts at a woman who it fat enough to have a tummy that sticks out a few inches in front of them. Though...
  10. fuelingfire

    When did you first realize that FA exist?

    I was about 5 when I realized I was attracted to fat women. I have reposted the story about it at least 5 times. The short version was I was a honest 5 year old, who after learning what the word fat was called my favorite caretaker that she was fat. Noticing her reaction, I realized that fat...
  11. fuelingfire

    Do thick girls make skinny guys uncomfortable because they're thicker than they are?

    Start the Sarah Mclachlan music. I had no idea we have been doing so much damage.
  12. fuelingfire

    To Be Or Not To Be A Feeder?

    I would think most FA’s in relationships would meet the qualifications of being enablers. For anyone to remain the size they are, they must continue eating the nutritional diet that they are on. I have never made a girl feel bad for what they she eating. You don’t get big by eating spinach.
  13. fuelingfire

    Naturally fat?

    You would find many similarities. But the research would also likely be flawed. Most obese people have tried dieting at some point. It would be hard to control who has yo-yo’d enough and who hasn’t. Also the choice of food while dieting could make a big difference. People often try to eat the...
  14. fuelingfire

    Do thick girls make skinny guys uncomfortable because they're thicker than they are?

    I would replace the word "health" with the word "size." I think most people who want to focus on their health, actually are referring to or focusing on weight loss. They don't think about reducing blood pressure by eating more fruits and veggies, avoiding high cholesterol foods, exercises...
  15. fuelingfire

    Best way to get your daily protein in

    I have eaten a (mostly) plant based diet since 2010. I don’t consider myself vegan, despite avoiding dairy and eggs. Nutrition research has been horribly corrupted, so we might never know the truth. I weightlift, so I make sure I eat a large amount of protein. I am a big fan of the book...
  16. fuelingfire

    Carrie Fisher has heart attack during flight

    I would throw in her being bipolar as a huge factor, in everything that contributed to her death.
  17. fuelingfire

    Do thick girls make skinny guys uncomfortable because they're thicker than they are?

    I agree with what you wrote. I suspect that the fat partner with a fit partner combination is rare. A lot of people have asked if it’s weird that I exercise and the girls I date (usually) don’t. Most couples don’t do everything together. I think the rareness where some of the, um disbelief...
  18. fuelingfire

    Only in the FA World

    When your girlfriend retells a story at least 2 times in front of you, of an event you thought was trivial. We were at an adult evening at the Madison Children’s Museum, last weekend. There are a lot of people there, and its quite noisy from everyone talking. I recently grew a beard because she...
  19. fuelingfire

    Do thick girls make skinny guys uncomfortable because they're thicker than they are?

    I think that view is at least somewhat common outside of FFAs. A lot of sitcoms have had fat male leads (probably stand up comedians, whose appearance doesn’t seem to matter as much as normal actors), with a thin wife that looks like a model. When I did play American football in junior high and...
  20. fuelingfire

    Do thick girls make skinny guys uncomfortable because they're thicker than they are?

    I can easily recognize which women are conventionally attractive, but have no interest in the ones who are not at least a bit chubby (in a relationship manner). I realized I was attracted to fat women around the age of 5. I don’t remember most of the interactions that thought me that I am not...
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