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Absolutely STRUGGLING in new relationship - changes in appearance
Update: This man is amazing. Today, out of the blue, he brought up the "issue". Now, he is not someone who would ever be inauthentic to himself. I know he is okay with me talking about my problems *or* keeping them to myself. He just loves that I don't dump my emotions on others and expect... -
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Absolutely STRUGGLING in new relationship - changes in appearance
Update: Dammit. I had come to peace, and we hadn't spoken again on the subject. We were hanging out tonight and he commented how he had to keep pulling up his pants. I wasn't thinking anything in particular and asked why. He said he had lost a little weight. That... deflated me. I didn't mean... -
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Absolutely STRUGGLING in new relationship - changes in appearance
Update: Despite whatever advice I received, I planned to keep this to myself. But, in true "me" fashion, it ended up spilling out... And at a terrible time. I talked to him about it via text, while I was drunk and he (unknown to either of us at the time) was coming down with the flu. I... -
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How do you like a man's belly?
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Size acceptance... really?
Thank you. I really appreciate your empathy. I also hate unkempt beards haha! "everything you like or want may not automatically be bad/wrong if you don't hurt anyone and have a willing partner" I definitely have some angst/guilt/shame with regard to my fat attraction. I have a lot to figure...- balthyes
- Post #27
- Forum: Daily Living
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
"if one of your lovers changes in a way that makes you less attracted to him/her/them, at least you have the other(s). I know, that is a crude assessment but is the obvious one" It's absolutely not an obvious assessment. I have genuine feelings and connections for individuals and our... -
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Size acceptance... really?
Thank you for your kind response. I absolutely need to have regard for all the types of people here who are. My whole source of inner conflict *is* love for people, for who they are and the connections we share, but the physical appearance thing likes to interfere. I have a history of OCD and...- balthyes
- Post #22
- Forum: Daily Living
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Size acceptance... really?
And please don't be scared of me! I've only posted with my struggles. I don't even have a dick! I'm not into being a feeder or a partner explicitly gaining. I just like fat men and I don't know how to handle this factor in my attraction.- balthyes
- Post #12
- Forum: Daily Living
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
Thank you for your support! FYI, polyamory is not generally considered a sexuality. That can be quite contentious! Many will say it is a "relationship orientation" though (which for some is only a choice of relationship agreement, for others an intrinsic identity, for others a bit of both). -
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
Thank you! That is what I need to remember. I am getting ahead of myself with what could be. -
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
It's not about "having someone on the side". Not all polyamorous people are couples that open up. And what if there are children? It takes a village... -
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
And monogamy is conditional on so many things too? That's silly. "their partner": polyamory is not just about a primary dyad. "promiscuity": There are asexual polyamorists. You have a fundamental misunderstanding about what polyamory is -
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
I I came to polyamory without any partners at all. It's not about diminishing sexual attraction/activities or people "on the side". -
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Size acceptance... really?
I have posted here because I have a fat fetish. I have said that I hate that I do. I have posted a thread full of all sorts of inner thoughts that I have because it causes me grief. I don't lose attraction for a *partner* per se because of weight loss, but I feel *something* that hurts. It hurts...- balthyes
- Post #11
- Forum: Daily Living
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
Oh, he knew right from the outset. That makes things extra confusing. -
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Internet addiction and mental health.
I find Reddit such a lonely place. Partly it's because I'm in the UK yet most users are in the US, so I miss the active times. It just takes one downvote to inspire others to downvote. Don't read into it too much.- balthyes
- Post #7
- Forum: Health Forum
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Absolutely STRUGGLING in new relationship - changes in appearance
Iiinteresting. I hadn't heard that before. Do you have any sources on CBT efficacy in ND people? Because I'd love to know more (and it might help me get the kind of help I actually think I need). Weirdly though, I successfully, yet unknowingly, CBT'd myself as a kid with OCD. I once thereafter... -
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Absolutely STRUGGLING in new relationship - changes in appearance
I hope you can seek diagnosis! It might do you a world of good. -
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Does anyone else HATE this fetish?
I would be attracted to him as a person, and I guess still attracted to him physically, but not ~super~ attracted to him like I am now. Do you really think being open with him about this is the best idea? It's my problem to deal with, right? What could I reasonably expect either of us to gain...