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  1. fotoman1133406

    WLS and meds?

    I have a close and very dear friend that is wanting to have the "lap band"; What I am looking out for her for is... are there problems with metabozing any or all medications?
  2. fotoman1133406

    Update

    No wonder I'm so nuts at this time, look what I've lost in a short time... Aug.,'03... my father Aug.,'04... beloved cat Horse(30lb. Maine Coon) that was a sweety and "love-bucket"...
  3. fotoman1133406

    Update

    A personal ad...no. One of the members helped out by meeting me. I'm glad she did, it helped a lot. I'm giving updates to let the group know what's what. Without DIMENSIONS, I would not have met Lois.
  4. fotoman1133406

    Update

    Someone to take care of me...yes/no. The way I have seen, been a part of a relationship... it's BOTH partners taking care of each other, going through lifes adventues together and LIVING life together. What I'm getting at...the small things...taking out the garbage, running errands...
  5. fotoman1133406

    Update

    Well, let me see if I can clarify a few things on why I looking so hard... I'm 53 and have already had one heart attack, I have a family history of ALL the males in my family have died anywhere from two weeks to one year from losing a spouse, I'm down 30 pounds from all this, have no real desire...
  6. fotoman1133406

    Update

    Don't know, just givin an update to all.
  7. fotoman1133406

    Update

    I have been trying to write this several times, so here goes... Today makes three months and five days from losing my wife. A lot has happened and going on. First have/had been in touch with one of the members of this group and eventually met. I want to thank her a great deal. I found out a...
  8. fotoman1133406

    Hey it's been awhile

    My sister-in-law sent these to me. These are the last pictures of my late wife. Taken one week before she was admitted to the hospital and later passing.
  9. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    Don't know about some guys, but there is a lot of "silent, alone crying" by us. Everytime Lois was at dialysis, in the hospital, in pain and agony...I cried. She never knew it or saw it. Felt helpless. Guys also go on and live and remarry, because they were told to by their spouse...like...
  10. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    What time frame was involved. From your spouses passing, mourning, dating again, and re-marriage. What I'm looking at is one month(30 days) today, from here passing. Am still "going up/down". Work I have found does help a bit, sweat out the bad chemicals of mourning. Feel very worn...
  11. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    Guys, I'm not remembering all the bad stuff that went on...no. I ran across that list of things about her and posted so you guys could know more about her. Hey, I have a very long list of good stuff that we had...so don't worry about that. To best sum it up...in the dictionary the word "love"...
  12. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    Tomorrow with be one month from her passing...how'd you do it? Being alone is driving me crazy. When did you start getting out? Dating? Re-married? This being alone stuff is going to kill me. Lois was right. I am not meant to be alone...period. Lifes journey...is best traveled by two; not one.
  13. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    Guys, guys, guys...lets see if I can get things straight for you. People around me, where I live have once they find out what was her problems have said I should of left a long time ago. You guys on the other hand have been very supportive. I just needed the positive...
  14. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    Well, Miss Vickie, What I'm gettin at is most people would have left and not "put up" with all the stuff. Guys, I stay, because my very being(heart, mind, soul) all said you and her are one life. Don't know 'bout you...would not have missed it for anything.
  15. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    I remember Lois asking me again and again...was it worth it? She telling me to dump her for "greener Pastures". I'd look at her and sometimes say nothing or I'd say no. Guys, my "side-of-the-fence" was'nt illness free either. Broken right hip in Aug. '93. Heart attack,dying and back...
  16. fotoman1133406

    Remembering my late wife

    I remember the things that I could'nt help her with...and there's a lot. Lymphedema and secondary lymphedema Fibromyalgia Poly-myalgia rhuematica Chronic anemia Unknown connective tissue syndrome Multiple chemical sensitivity A-symptomatic heart...
  17. fotoman1133406

    Guys

    The info and advice you have shared has been helpfull and greatly appreciated. Thanx one and all for the help. I will come back again and again for your advice and help through this tough time.
  18. fotoman1133406

    From all my postings and listening...

    Yes. The qualities that Lois had are what drew me to her, to begin with. We were both "on the same page" as far as values of a relationship and friendship goes. First and foremost...we grew together as friends. And , as friends our marriage was a very good one. Are there others out there...
  19. fotoman1133406

    From all my postings and listening...

    When I met Lois for the first time...I left Washington State Feb 13, 93 with only $100.00 in my pocket, all my belongings in two suit cases and hopes. For me, there was no going back...only forward. I put my guts(faith) on the line that we would both accept each other and build a life together...
  20. fotoman1133406

    Up-date from my wifes passing

    Is different for people and done differently throughout the world. Plus women are very different then men are in their grieving. Women, by-and-large will hold on to the process for along period of time, sometimes years. And in other countries this is expected and demanded. The U.S. is one. For...
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