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  1. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    Thank you Red Velvet for understanding. No for the others who need to know I am nowhere near small in genital size. I am not short (I'm 6 ft. tall) and I am not fat (I'm 145-150 pounds). Just because I highlight someone else's plight doesn't mean I am of that population. I always speak up about...
  2. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    OK. Warm as in kind, compassionate, understanding, affectionate. Cold as in mean, heartless, denigrating, hands-offish. That good? :) We are socialized poorly. Everything has to be a Battle of the Sexes routine. *sigh* There are cruel people on both genders, Green Eyed Fairy. You know this. You...
  3. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    Now see, this is what happened last time I was here. People taking what I said all wrong and missing the point I was making. Definition of Discrimination: Discrimination is to recognize qualities and differences of certain things or persons and making choices based on those qualities. That's...
  4. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    Ho ho. I gotta jump on this one. :D Me Tarzan, You Jane, Let's swing? It SHOULD be that easy actually. Maybe that's the point. Maybe people need to quit looking for these lockdown relationships where people stay together forever and ever. A lot of young guys AND old guys ain't about that no...
  5. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    Sounds like you have good qualities to me. Of course all men don't like fat women. But doggone it there's a LOT of 'em who do. Some closet, some open. The closet ones really need to stop being wimps about it. Let's run through that list again. Warm. Men love warm women. So many cold ones out...
  6. J

    Why "online FAs" miss out in real life

    Hello. I'm John Lucas. I posted here long ago and was "run off" for my point of view. :p Learned a new lesson in studies on self-image called over-defensiveness. The problem is on both sides. The men (& women) who like fat women (& men) are too worried about "what others will think". They...
  7. J

    Ideas on the origin of fat discrimination?

    Oh ~Really~? Cool! I'm gonna hafta check that out. Your writing might help me understand more of how prejudices arise. Thanks. John Lucas
  8. J

    Ideas on the origin of fat discrimination?

    OK, guys. Stepping away from my obviously controversial intro I start this thread. I always wondered how things that exist came to be. You know...how Spiderman became Spiderman. That radioactive spider that set the phenomenon off, you know? In the gay rights issue some people against...
  9. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    I admit I was a little bothered by some people thinking I was patronizing them or being too authoritarian or looking down or whatever but I'm gonna let it ride. I understand how trolls can ruin forums (this is why MJJForum.com, a site I visit, has such strict rules about posts & heavy...
  10. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    See? And that's the problem. Everybody's reading into what I say & coming up with their own conclusions unrelated to what I said. What makes you think that I think ANY of those groups including THIS group are undesireable? I said they face ostracization from society based on their...
  11. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    It was a Nintendo gameplayers forum. And it STILL wasn't like this! The membership is obviously not all adult & not all mature. Many posters liked my contributions & saw me as a valuable contributor while there was always this set of others who just didn't like anything I had to say no...
  12. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    I ain't never gonna be understood here. Everybody's too edgy. I'll just learn from lurk like before & if I have a question I come out & ask. Or if I have a comment to make I'll just say it. Can't be explaining the purpose behind everything I say on every post I make so I'm through with all...
  13. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    Yes, I am a black man. And I DEFINITELY know how it is to feel ostracized in society. If not through my own personal experiences then with those of the ones like me. It doesn't happen often but I guess my long-windiness can get me in trouble. I was just trying to make an informative engaging...
  14. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    :( *sigh* Hold on, hold on, hold on. If that's how I'm comng across that's not my intention. I posted those links from current threads just relating a few of the obstacles still facing fat people in regards to acceptance. I was not telling people what they should or should not do. See...
  15. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    NOW I understand the misreading! :D No, no, no. I've NEVER shared or posted anybody's POSTS from here, no. I just talked about the movement in general. The fact that it exists, that's all. People are not aware that there's any Fat Acceptance movement & I simply verified its existence...
  16. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    Wow, very strange. Why is everybody so defensive around here? I'm just a regular man offering my perspective, OK? Like everybody else. If you take that stance then nobody should go to support groups like these for feedback or counsel. We should only share these issues with psychologists &...
  17. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    Thanks for the warm welcome everybody. And before things get out of hand I'm gonna clear up some misunderstandings, OK? Want us to be on the same page. Thank you SamanthaNY for the compliment. When I said that above I meant that I show people who feel badly about themselves on whatever...
  18. J

    Introducing John Lucas—BBW lover & more

    *sigh* I've had this site on my favorites for awhile checking in reading posts but I've never touched down & introduced myself. Hello everybody here at Dimensions Forums. My name is John Lucas & I am a lover & appreciater of the Big Beautiful Woman. I study as a hobby the self-image issues...
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