bbwnluvinit
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I am a proud BBW all of my teen and adult years I have been, I have never had a problem getting dates or getting men. I have always been comfortable in my skin you might say until about a year ago....
My hubby and I have been married for 8 years and I thought that we had a good relationship. He has never complained about my weight and in fact has always said that he liked me just the way I am. About a year ago though things started to change he has never said anything to me about losing weight or anything it is just the way he treats me... We hardly ever have sex and when we do it is quick & over with. there is no foreplay, no cuddling nothing I feel like a piece of meat that is there when he is ready for it. He loves to look at porn online and I have no problem with that it is just that he only looks at the skinny girls no BBW's.... this has really hurt my self esteem and I have tried to tell myself that it is his problem and not mine...that if he is not happy with me anymore then he needs to leave me alons and let me find someone who is going to be statisfied with me. I want someone to think I am BEAUTIFUL and feel like it is all they can do to keep thier hands off me.
I have talked to my hubby about this and all I get is "Well I'm not the "romantic" kinda guy" I said cant you learn??? Heck romance is everywhere TV, internet, books everywhere. What is so hard with getting ideas on how to be romantic....I guess what I am wondering is what should I do.... walk....give him time....what?? any advice???
My hubby and I have been married for 8 years and I thought that we had a good relationship. He has never complained about my weight and in fact has always said that he liked me just the way I am. About a year ago though things started to change he has never said anything to me about losing weight or anything it is just the way he treats me... We hardly ever have sex and when we do it is quick & over with. there is no foreplay, no cuddling nothing I feel like a piece of meat that is there when he is ready for it. He loves to look at porn online and I have no problem with that it is just that he only looks at the skinny girls no BBW's.... this has really hurt my self esteem and I have tried to tell myself that it is his problem and not mine...that if he is not happy with me anymore then he needs to leave me alons and let me find someone who is going to be statisfied with me. I want someone to think I am BEAUTIFUL and feel like it is all they can do to keep thier hands off me.
I have talked to my hubby about this and all I get is "Well I'm not the "romantic" kinda guy" I said cant you learn??? Heck romance is everywhere TV, internet, books everywhere. What is so hard with getting ideas on how to be romantic....I guess what I am wondering is what should I do.... walk....give him time....what?? any advice???
