Um...I have a really weird problem, and I need some help dealing.
My boyfriend (I met him last December) is an FA and has been encouraging me to eat til I can't move. Although I thought it was kinda disgusting at first, by the end of last spring semester, I found myself really enjoying the BBW lifestyle and couldn't really see the harm in it.
But, this fall, back at school, I've decided that I'm just not comfortable being a BBW. My mom has expressed concern about my growing size and I have some family history of cancer, high cholestarol (sp?), and heart disease. I want to do everything in my power in order to bring down my chances of inheriting these health issues. After a lot of thinking about it, I've decided I want to start living healthier, working out, losing a bit of weight, eating better, etc.
The problem is, my b/f can't accept it. He's all upset at even the menition of me working out and he can't figure how me eating salad til I can't move is a healthly alternative to what I did last semester. I just can't get through to him, and I'm starting to get more and more disgusted by my eating habits because I know it's just not good for my overall health. I just can't make him see that.
I was wondering if anyone has had this problem or is currently having this problem and how to do deal with it, etc.
I would really appreciate any input.
BTW, if i posted in the wrong area or in the wrong forum altogther, I apologize in advance. It's my first time posting here and I'm not sure where to post
My boyfriend (I met him last December) is an FA and has been encouraging me to eat til I can't move. Although I thought it was kinda disgusting at first, by the end of last spring semester, I found myself really enjoying the BBW lifestyle and couldn't really see the harm in it.
But, this fall, back at school, I've decided that I'm just not comfortable being a BBW. My mom has expressed concern about my growing size and I have some family history of cancer, high cholestarol (sp?), and heart disease. I want to do everything in my power in order to bring down my chances of inheriting these health issues. After a lot of thinking about it, I've decided I want to start living healthier, working out, losing a bit of weight, eating better, etc.
The problem is, my b/f can't accept it. He's all upset at even the menition of me working out and he can't figure how me eating salad til I can't move is a healthly alternative to what I did last semester. I just can't get through to him, and I'm starting to get more and more disgusted by my eating habits because I know it's just not good for my overall health. I just can't make him see that.
I was wondering if anyone has had this problem or is currently having this problem and how to do deal with it, etc.
I would really appreciate any input.
BTW, if i posted in the wrong area or in the wrong forum altogther, I apologize in advance. It's my first time posting here and I'm not sure where to post
