superodalisque
Well-Known Member
FAs are in many ways much more the average than guys who only like thin women. they have a greater range of attraction. so why is it that there seems to be some kind of an insistence on making them look as strange and abnormal as possibly ? it often bothers me when they are presented to as if they must always be freaky and fetishy. i have nothing against fetish but there is much more to sexuality than just fetish and fixation and not everyone has one. and even if they do its not everything they might be into. besides that guys who prefer slim women have fetishes but its not the foremost thing presented when their sexuality is explored. why so for FAs?
IMO it does a disservice to FAs to act as though thats all any of them are interested in-- ever. what it can do is make them look like less of a person. it makes them look incapable of being truly human. it disrespects their capacity to just love the beauty of a fat woman or the woman herself.
it could be that FAs would be a great tool to ultimately liberate the female form. unfortunately the way that they are often presented or pandered to, as kooky weird guys, it can create yet another restraint and burden for them and women. it seems to emphasize that there is something "wrong" and not just different. right now the whole thing seems to be just another missed opportunity for women and men to enjoy who they are and maybe even change the perceptions of the world. am i way off base? or does this even matter? do you feel people really appreciate you for all that you are as an FA, or do you ever feel pigeon holed to an extent?
IMO it does a disservice to FAs to act as though thats all any of them are interested in-- ever. what it can do is make them look like less of a person. it makes them look incapable of being truly human. it disrespects their capacity to just love the beauty of a fat woman or the woman herself.
it could be that FAs would be a great tool to ultimately liberate the female form. unfortunately the way that they are often presented or pandered to, as kooky weird guys, it can create yet another restraint and burden for them and women. it seems to emphasize that there is something "wrong" and not just different. right now the whole thing seems to be just another missed opportunity for women and men to enjoy who they are and maybe even change the perceptions of the world. am i way off base? or does this even matter? do you feel people really appreciate you for all that you are as an FA, or do you ever feel pigeon holed to an extent?
