insecurity
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I'm assuming you guys get this all the time, but this is important to me. All around, you get the message from the media, 'friends', family and so forth that weighty people are unattractive and terrible. Yet most of these people are sporting a paunch of their own. I have a definite preference towards larger forms, yet I can't admit to it to near anyone. After the ridicule they place upon those of larger sizes, I feel so dirty, so wrong for finding larger people attractive.
I am a slim person, myself (and drunk right now - it's the only way I could find the courage within my cowardly self) but I get such strong feelings about larger women. My girlfriend is verging on it herself and keeps whining about her weight. I find it so hard to tell her, 'I love the fact you're heavier. I find you more attractive now than when we met.' It seems so cowardly, yet I feel so brow-beaten by society in it's ridcule of hefty ladies and the 'sick' men who would dare be with them, that I am literally frightened by the prospect of admitting those feelings to even those closest to me. Help?
I am a slim person, myself (and drunk right now - it's the only way I could find the courage within my cowardly self) but I get such strong feelings about larger women. My girlfriend is verging on it herself and keeps whining about her weight. I find it so hard to tell her, 'I love the fact you're heavier. I find you more attractive now than when we met.' It seems so cowardly, yet I feel so brow-beaten by society in it's ridcule of hefty ladies and the 'sick' men who would dare be with them, that I am literally frightened by the prospect of admitting those feelings to even those closest to me. Help?
