Hi, I am new to this board and am learning a lot! One of the questions that has come up for me is the idea of closet fat admirers. I am a ssbbw and wonder if the closet is deeper for the fattest of the fat or if the actual weight matters. Like Joe Blow will go out with Patty a bbw or Sally a ssbbw. Will Joe admit his preference for a bbw more readily than a ssbbw?