I have a question that I have been wondering about for a while. Growing up, I was often told I was ugly...I was always a chubby kid, so I'm wondering if I actually was ugly, or if I was ugly because I was fat. However after meeting some FFA's online and all, I have been told I am cute/attractive, which is a great thing to hear, but it makes me wonder again, am I cute because I am fat? Or am I just cute overall?
So I have often asked myself, which is it? Am I ugly because I am fat? Or am I cute because I am fat?
My point is, there are thin women and men who would still be considered unattractive, so can't the same be true for BHMs? FFA's out there, do most of you think all BHM's are cute? Or have any of you ever come across a fat man that you still found unattractive?
Sorry if my questioning is a little confusing.
So I have often asked myself, which is it? Am I ugly because I am fat? Or am I cute because I am fat?
My point is, there are thin women and men who would still be considered unattractive, so can't the same be true for BHMs? FFA's out there, do most of you think all BHM's are cute? Or have any of you ever come across a fat man that you still found unattractive?
Sorry if my questioning is a little confusing.