phelan4022
Live by Example
After much deliberation and discourse on the subject, I would like to propose a new descriptor for those, male or female, that admire full figured bodies. I know that using Fat in Fat Admirer is a means of taking the word back but the stigma attached to fat is so virulent that I've had it be an object of intense debate with both significant others and friends. Simply for me, there is far more to a BBW that I admire than her fat. Yes, her body is glorious but there is an ineffable grace to BBWs that transcends mere physicality and, be it through the vagaries of nature or nurture, a caliber of spirit that is as much an attraction to me as simple curvaceousness.
So, I propose and have already put into affect personally, that we no longer differentiate between male or female "fat" admirers but specifically state what we are personally attracted to. I, for instance, am a BBWA, a Big, Beautiful Woman Admirer, or just Admirer for short. A FFA would be a BHMA, etc.
I understand the difficulty of changing an already established factor of the meme but I think doing so would be of great benefit to our cause on the whole, supporting not just the aspects of our attraction but the people that embody them. I would love further input, positive or negative.
Thank you.
So, I propose and have already put into affect personally, that we no longer differentiate between male or female "fat" admirers but specifically state what we are personally attracted to. I, for instance, am a BBWA, a Big, Beautiful Woman Admirer, or just Admirer for short. A FFA would be a BHMA, etc.
I understand the difficulty of changing an already established factor of the meme but I think doing so would be of great benefit to our cause on the whole, supporting not just the aspects of our attraction but the people that embody them. I would love further input, positive or negative.
Thank you.
