My friend confuses me.
I've known the guy 7 years on a totally platonic level and there has always been playfighting and teasing and hugging and stuff. We have always done this, and I havent read anything into it. He, and for that matter I, behave in much the same way with the other people we know.
But any girl, any girl in the world, who is routinely pinned to a bed and tickled into submission whilst having raspberries blown on her belly and repeated bum pinchings, is going to find it hard to keep things in a platonic light. And THAT is new. And if I'm visiting then thats happening 4 or 5 times a day. And when that isnt happening he's watching TV lying on the bed next to me and getting all cuddly.
Then he will sit up and sing a song along the lines of "Hey everybody have you seen my Loz she's big and wobbly and round!" to the tune of chocolate salty balls from South Park. If any reference is made to me as a sexual being he then makes icked out noises and pulls a face, or shudders.
What the Hell?
It could be just that he likes teasing me and now the teasing has gone to weird new levels, but... I... am... confused.
I am not his physical type. He likes a wide variety of girls, but none over slightly overweight. He is not into the big gals. And he's known me so long that I just thought that attraction was a non issue, but its driving me mad as I start to see him in a new light because having a man on top of me breathing heavily into my face has that effect on me, strangely.
Plus, y'know, I adore him and would walk through fire for him.
In a literal sense. If there was fire needed walking through I would be THERE.
I know he loves me too, but not in a sexual way, more in a sistery friendy way...although his actions, as stated, confuse me.
I don't know wether to bring it up so as to clear the air and know whats going on, or to leave it because I'm being daft for reading anything into it at all. Plus, if I bring it up and there is nothing there, it might really muck up our friendship which I cannot have happening.
Advice please? Am I being paranoid or is it blatantly obvious that he does have something going on for me there?
Although if he does I have no idea what to do about it...
I've known the guy 7 years on a totally platonic level and there has always been playfighting and teasing and hugging and stuff. We have always done this, and I havent read anything into it. He, and for that matter I, behave in much the same way with the other people we know.
But any girl, any girl in the world, who is routinely pinned to a bed and tickled into submission whilst having raspberries blown on her belly and repeated bum pinchings, is going to find it hard to keep things in a platonic light. And THAT is new. And if I'm visiting then thats happening 4 or 5 times a day. And when that isnt happening he's watching TV lying on the bed next to me and getting all cuddly.
Then he will sit up and sing a song along the lines of "Hey everybody have you seen my Loz she's big and wobbly and round!" to the tune of chocolate salty balls from South Park. If any reference is made to me as a sexual being he then makes icked out noises and pulls a face, or shudders.
What the Hell?
It could be just that he likes teasing me and now the teasing has gone to weird new levels, but... I... am... confused.
I am not his physical type. He likes a wide variety of girls, but none over slightly overweight. He is not into the big gals. And he's known me so long that I just thought that attraction was a non issue, but its driving me mad as I start to see him in a new light because having a man on top of me breathing heavily into my face has that effect on me, strangely.
Plus, y'know, I adore him and would walk through fire for him.
In a literal sense. If there was fire needed walking through I would be THERE.
I know he loves me too, but not in a sexual way, more in a sistery friendy way...although his actions, as stated, confuse me.
I don't know wether to bring it up so as to clear the air and know whats going on, or to leave it because I'm being daft for reading anything into it at all. Plus, if I bring it up and there is nothing there, it might really muck up our friendship which I cannot have happening.
Advice please? Am I being paranoid or is it blatantly obvious that he does have something going on for me there?
Although if he does I have no idea what to do about it...
