I've known about my attraction to fat women and men since I was very young and realized it was exclusive sometime in my early twenties. Now I am almost thirty and am in the first relationship where I can be open about my FFAness. To a point.
My partner is on the "smaller" side of what I tend to like (he is ~250 lbs), and has a very beautiful body. He has gone from chubby to fat in the last few years and is still getting used to his newish size, occasionally talking about working out (never dieting) and saying he can't get any fatter. That doesn't keep him from pigging out frequently...ah, where was I?
i think part of why he is conscious of his weight is that he wants to appeal to a broader amount of women (we are in an open relationship - a serious one, we cohabitate etc.).)
So here's the thing: he's non judgmental as all get out and has his own kinks and fetishes. He caters to mine in terms of interests that some of you know and love (using his weight in certain ways during sex, posing with his big belly sticking out), but I still feel bashful about some things. He doesn't know about the websites I look at or how big I like people to be, I feel shy about things like grabbing or other ways of drawing attention to his fat, fat talk, etc - all things I've missed out on in the past when I could not have been as open. He stresses honesty above all things and is very open about his sexual quirks and proclivities and I want to reciprocate.
How have people caught halfway like this dealt with their situation?
My partner is on the "smaller" side of what I tend to like (he is ~250 lbs), and has a very beautiful body. He has gone from chubby to fat in the last few years and is still getting used to his newish size, occasionally talking about working out (never dieting) and saying he can't get any fatter. That doesn't keep him from pigging out frequently...ah, where was I?
i think part of why he is conscious of his weight is that he wants to appeal to a broader amount of women (we are in an open relationship - a serious one, we cohabitate etc.).)So here's the thing: he's non judgmental as all get out and has his own kinks and fetishes. He caters to mine in terms of interests that some of you know and love (using his weight in certain ways during sex, posing with his big belly sticking out), but I still feel bashful about some things. He doesn't know about the websites I look at or how big I like people to be, I feel shy about things like grabbing or other ways of drawing attention to his fat, fat talk, etc - all things I've missed out on in the past when I could not have been as open. He stresses honesty above all things and is very open about his sexual quirks and proclivities and I want to reciprocate.
How have people caught halfway like this dealt with their situation?
