I broke up with my fiancee?
The fact of the matter is she's not fat or close to it. Nor does she have any desire to be. I'm not gonna lie, she's sexually appealing. But I can't help but think that I'm settling and not going for a "dream come true." Every fat girl I see on campus I keep catching myself thinking, "What if...?"
But then again, am I just being shallow? Looks shouldn't be the basis of relationship, right? I mean, looks just fade anyway. And maybe her thin body will plump right up with a midwestern American marriage and a couple of babies.
I guess quite frankly I know the idealistic point of view (I'm in every other way happy and in love and looks shouldn't matter) but for you guys who have lived more life and made more mistakes (and hopefully learned more) than me...is not walking into a marriage and not being completely happy physically noble or dumb?
The fact of the matter is she's not fat or close to it. Nor does she have any desire to be. I'm not gonna lie, she's sexually appealing. But I can't help but think that I'm settling and not going for a "dream come true." Every fat girl I see on campus I keep catching myself thinking, "What if...?"
But then again, am I just being shallow? Looks shouldn't be the basis of relationship, right? I mean, looks just fade anyway. And maybe her thin body will plump right up with a midwestern American marriage and a couple of babies.
I guess quite frankly I know the idealistic point of view (I'm in every other way happy and in love and looks shouldn't matter) but for you guys who have lived more life and made more mistakes (and hopefully learned more) than me...is not walking into a marriage and not being completely happy physically noble or dumb?
