Moderator’s note: This thread is an FA/FFA companion to the “are we (BBWs) too demanding” thread, here, in the BBW Forum.
This thread is designed to attract responses from both FAs/FFAs and potential SOs – which essentially includes everyone.
The question being presented here is whether fat women or fat men sometimes have unrealistic expectations when it comes to fat admirers And how much the FA/FFAs have trouble dealing with this.
When bbws/bhms talk about the kind of person they want, they say things like "I want a man/woman who wants me for me - a guy/gal who wants me despite my fat, or at least more than my fat." And as a result they trust no one and reject every overture.
The FAs and FFAs, tiring of this, possibly “settle” for going out not with who they would really like, but with people who are more friendly and less selective.
So, this is the question of this thread – what are typical expectations of everyone involved, and are they realistic or overly selective?
This thread is designed to attract responses from both FAs/FFAs and potential SOs – which essentially includes everyone.
The question being presented here is whether fat women or fat men sometimes have unrealistic expectations when it comes to fat admirers And how much the FA/FFAs have trouble dealing with this.
When bbws/bhms talk about the kind of person they want, they say things like "I want a man/woman who wants me for me - a guy/gal who wants me despite my fat, or at least more than my fat." And as a result they trust no one and reject every overture.
The FAs and FFAs, tiring of this, possibly “settle” for going out not with who they would really like, but with people who are more friendly and less selective.
So, this is the question of this thread – what are typical expectations of everyone involved, and are they realistic or overly selective?
