Men are pathetic, primitive creatures who seem to need endless visual stimulation to be content. They are hunters and what they see is what they want. It is no surprize, then, that they forget themselves and ask for photos from some women who take their fancy. Some ladies shower those who they like with heaps of images. The ungrateful men ask for yet more photos. Some even require larger, more detailed images. Is that asking way too much?
Well, let us sort this silly business out, once and for all. The way I see it everyone is entitled to ask for more information from someone they are interested in. That is always a process of negotiation but the rule is don't give information if you are not interested. If you are interested then the quality and quantity of information given will be proportionate to that interest. We men know this. Thus, we always ask for more or for something special. You have to realize that some women are exhibitionists and do not think sending nude images anything to be ashamed about. Bless those ladies! However, others are so prim and proper that getting an image of them showing their charms is just not going to happen. That is fine, too, and men respect this most of the time.
If you are going to send anyone photos then make sure they are clear and large enough to reveal what is there. Oh, images can be made larger using software but you cannot make a small, unclear image larger and keep the detail. The rule should be to have images that fill the computer screen. If we use a screen size of 1024 pixels across that is how large the photos should be. Any smaller is just teasing. Oh, we are always grateful to be given anything at all. Please understand that if a man is humble enough to beg for photos then he should be rewarded for his initiative. It is hardly encouraging knowing that the woman has sent more exclusive photos elsewhere.
I ask that the women be fair about this business. If the men don't ask for photos they will never get any, right? So be considerate and understand that guys love to get what others do not get. Does that make them sleazy? Well, it all depends on how much you like someone. What is fine with some might be way too much with others. There is no obligation to reward a guy just because he fancies you. However, if you do have reciprocal feelings then do the right thing and send decent, large photos. Everything can proceed along normal courtship lines and more photos can be exchanged as things improve.
I don't have to tell the guys to refrain from sending object images that debase the male gender. Keep those photos off the internet, fellas. I knew one woman who collected such images and she had a huge folder of unthinking jerks who had no idea.
I post this so that others can contribute their thoughts and collectively we can come up with some good rules about this problem.
Well, let us sort this silly business out, once and for all. The way I see it everyone is entitled to ask for more information from someone they are interested in. That is always a process of negotiation but the rule is don't give information if you are not interested. If you are interested then the quality and quantity of information given will be proportionate to that interest. We men know this. Thus, we always ask for more or for something special. You have to realize that some women are exhibitionists and do not think sending nude images anything to be ashamed about. Bless those ladies! However, others are so prim and proper that getting an image of them showing their charms is just not going to happen. That is fine, too, and men respect this most of the time.
If you are going to send anyone photos then make sure they are clear and large enough to reveal what is there. Oh, images can be made larger using software but you cannot make a small, unclear image larger and keep the detail. The rule should be to have images that fill the computer screen. If we use a screen size of 1024 pixels across that is how large the photos should be. Any smaller is just teasing. Oh, we are always grateful to be given anything at all. Please understand that if a man is humble enough to beg for photos then he should be rewarded for his initiative. It is hardly encouraging knowing that the woman has sent more exclusive photos elsewhere.
I ask that the women be fair about this business. If the men don't ask for photos they will never get any, right? So be considerate and understand that guys love to get what others do not get. Does that make them sleazy? Well, it all depends on how much you like someone. What is fine with some might be way too much with others. There is no obligation to reward a guy just because he fancies you. However, if you do have reciprocal feelings then do the right thing and send decent, large photos. Everything can proceed along normal courtship lines and more photos can be exchanged as things improve.
I don't have to tell the guys to refrain from sending object images that debase the male gender. Keep those photos off the internet, fellas. I knew one woman who collected such images and she had a huge folder of unthinking jerks who had no idea.
I post this so that others can contribute their thoughts and collectively we can come up with some good rules about this problem.
