Ok, wife is the love of my life, when we met she was a lot smaller than she is now (like 190) but went up to around 230 (She looks really good) Now she wants to exercise all the time (I'm military but could damn sure loose the weight) I'm happy about the weight loss, but she is wanting to drop down under 180 and....well......damn. I want her to get into shape, but if I had a choice I would rather have the 230. She has no idea I'm a FA, hell I didn't know I was until this week. I was looking at pics of Mandy Blake and plump princess (damn damn damn.... all I can say) and that's when I found this forum. Now my new problem is should I tell her I'm a FA, should I not? Should I help her get in better shape but try to keep her at her sexy weight or what?!?