user 41412
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- Joined
- Apr 25, 2009
- Messages
- 16
(Im new to Dimensions, been lurking on and off for a while but I decided to start posting today!)
Dont get me wrong I love my skinny friends, but they have such a different perspective on the world.
I go shopping with them to shops that stop at a UK size 14, when Im a size 18 (petite) and they try to get me to try stuff on. Then they think Im down on myself when I say that the item they are offering me wouldnt fit on my arm! I just dont get why the think that trying to convince me Im a 14, when Im not, is going to do me any good!
Im happy the way I am, a bunch of my skinny friends are only skinny because they dont eat properly anyway. Not that Im little miss health food but Im fat and I love my body, it sometimes strikes me that they will never be skinny enough to make themselves happy.
Im a bit tired of my friends trying to get me to join them on their harebrained diet plans too! Its not just that the idea of eating every meal for the foreseeable future in bar form fills me with dread, I dont want to change, Im happy being plump. I dont think my skinny mates get it .I dont base my self value on my physical appearance, but I do love my physical appearance!
I expect this is a common problem for a lot of BBWs.
Dont get me wrong I love my skinny friends, but they have such a different perspective on the world.
I go shopping with them to shops that stop at a UK size 14, when Im a size 18 (petite) and they try to get me to try stuff on. Then they think Im down on myself when I say that the item they are offering me wouldnt fit on my arm! I just dont get why the think that trying to convince me Im a 14, when Im not, is going to do me any good!
Im happy the way I am, a bunch of my skinny friends are only skinny because they dont eat properly anyway. Not that Im little miss health food but Im fat and I love my body, it sometimes strikes me that they will never be skinny enough to make themselves happy.
Im a bit tired of my friends trying to get me to join them on their harebrained diet plans too! Its not just that the idea of eating every meal for the foreseeable future in bar form fills me with dread, I dont want to change, Im happy being plump. I dont think my skinny mates get it .I dont base my self value on my physical appearance, but I do love my physical appearance!
I expect this is a common problem for a lot of BBWs.
