TheMildlyStrangeone
Well-Known Member
So my current girlfriend of over a year and a half, sometimes suggest that she would like me to lose my stomach. She said this last night after her mom noticed her belly got a bit bigger after this semester. She blew it off then said to me, you know i'd be more attracted to you if you lost that (pointing to my stomach). Me, being the intuitive person (and forgiving) that I am, knew she was doing this because her mom just made her feel really insecure so she took it out on me.
I currently am 6 '2 and about 320-330lbs. (i've gained weight since I lost my job where I used to be on my feet all day lifting heavy cartons of paper). Her ex was a big guy she said he was about 6'0 280 lbs but she says he was solid, whereas I am not. Unfortunately, 90% of my weight is in my stomach. Therefore, my legs are solid as a rock. Honestly, I do want to lose some weight because I miss playing sports I used to when I was more like 270-280lbs. I loved playing tennis, basketball, hockey and all other sorts. So I am pondering some weight loss.
To be fair to her as well, she is generally pretty good about me being overweight and hasn't had a problem with it before. But I know she'd rather have me slimmer.
Long story short, have other BHM's experience dating a girl who wanted them to lose weight and how has that turned out?
I currently am 6 '2 and about 320-330lbs. (i've gained weight since I lost my job where I used to be on my feet all day lifting heavy cartons of paper). Her ex was a big guy she said he was about 6'0 280 lbs but she says he was solid, whereas I am not. Unfortunately, 90% of my weight is in my stomach. Therefore, my legs are solid as a rock. Honestly, I do want to lose some weight because I miss playing sports I used to when I was more like 270-280lbs. I loved playing tennis, basketball, hockey and all other sorts. So I am pondering some weight loss.
To be fair to her as well, she is generally pretty good about me being overweight and hasn't had a problem with it before. But I know she'd rather have me slimmer.
Long story short, have other BHM's experience dating a girl who wanted them to lose weight and how has that turned out?
