Heres my little rant! I have been up and down the scales for many years but generally do prefer being heavier. My doctor is always telling me to loose weight, along with the media and now the government! I don't consider at present to be 'Fat' I'm 6'2 and about 215lbs! In the past I have been as heavy as 325lbs and as light as 190lbs. I gain weight very quickly if I eat the wrong things. As a recent trip to Vegas proved when I gained about 18-20lbs in little over a week! 
The problem I find is that in general women seem to prefer the slimmer guy and in industry you are preseeved to be less productive than our slimmer counterparts?
In fact for years being with my partner she said loved me bigger with a big belly to cuddle and in fact introduced me to this site. Subsequently I put on 30lbs, grew out of my clothes which I loved. Then announced a year or so later when I was heading towards 350lbs that she prefers slimmer men after all and just said it to be nice and hoped I would loose weight?
Does anyone else have a similar story?
That was years ago! Where does a guy find genuine women who love the larger form? How do you approach the gainer/feedee issue? I.... probably like many men here would love to seek a genuine partner interested in this activity? Where do men start? I've heard the just be yourself many times, I am and have quiet a few female friends but all like the slimmer frame!
It seems to be very geared to the beautiful women who adorn these pages. Of which I am a fan!!!! I would love to hear from anyone with there views!
The problem I find is that in general women seem to prefer the slimmer guy and in industry you are preseeved to be less productive than our slimmer counterparts?
In fact for years being with my partner she said loved me bigger with a big belly to cuddle and in fact introduced me to this site. Subsequently I put on 30lbs, grew out of my clothes which I loved. Then announced a year or so later when I was heading towards 350lbs that she prefers slimmer men after all and just said it to be nice and hoped I would loose weight?
Does anyone else have a similar story?
That was years ago! Where does a guy find genuine women who love the larger form? How do you approach the gainer/feedee issue? I.... probably like many men here would love to seek a genuine partner interested in this activity? Where do men start? I've heard the just be yourself many times, I am and have quiet a few female friends but all like the slimmer frame!
It seems to be very geared to the beautiful women who adorn these pages. Of which I am a fan!!!! I would love to hear from anyone with there views!
