I have long been a FFA and think a large part of my attraction to larger men is the cultural significance behind fat, historically speaking. Fat has long symbolized power, wealth, and security. I love the safety and security of cuddling up to a larger Alpha male, but size alone is not enough to attract me. I would love to meet a man whose weight was truly a reflection of his status and ambition... as it was throughout history! :smitten:
It seems laziness is a quality that attracts many women to BHMen, but to me that self-indulgence is only sexy if the man is hard-working and ambitious... assertive, both in and outside of the bedroom.
Would love to know if any FFAs share my feelings, or if there are any larger men whose attraction and interest in their size centers around ideas of power and the hedonistic pursuit of pleasure afforded by their place in society.
It seems laziness is a quality that attracts many women to BHMen, but to me that self-indulgence is only sexy if the man is hard-working and ambitious... assertive, both in and outside of the bedroom.
Would love to know if any FFAs share my feelings, or if there are any larger men whose attraction and interest in their size centers around ideas of power and the hedonistic pursuit of pleasure afforded by their place in society.
