hi i'm new here.. i'm Jude, nice to meet all of you i'm 28, from philadelphia.. i'm 400+lbs, 6'1, brown hair & hazel eyes. i'll save the rest for anyone who's interested. i came across this site by accident; i didn't even know what a bhm was until recently, or that there are women who actually prefer them. i dont know if i'm a bhm, but i've been big for all of my life. i'm glad i found this forum, & i hope i can make some new friends here. women only.. sorry. send me a message if you'd like ok?