ashmamma84
Om Namah Shivayah
I'm curious to know your thoughts on this matter. I was talking to one of my fat friends and we were discussing the prevalence of body envy in both the fat community and the average/thin community...what I mean by body envy is not necessarily attaining a certain size, but a certain shape; and what I have noticed is that alot of women want/desire a classic hourglass or pear shape figure.
The said friend happens to have a top heavy shape; she doesn't have an ass or hips, but she has gorgeous legs and quite a rack and I told her (and I think it applies for most women), instead of loathing what you have naturally, learn to love it and play up the parts you do love. Personally, I used to be at odds with my petite frame...I am so short, yet quite plump and putting on weight was disconcerting at best in the beginning. Though I will say I've always loved my fat arse and shapely legs...
So I guess I just wanted to have a dialogue (don't know if it's been done before...probably so) about fat women and the supposed ideal shapes in the fat community.
The said friend happens to have a top heavy shape; she doesn't have an ass or hips, but she has gorgeous legs and quite a rack and I told her (and I think it applies for most women), instead of loathing what you have naturally, learn to love it and play up the parts you do love. Personally, I used to be at odds with my petite frame...I am so short, yet quite plump and putting on weight was disconcerting at best in the beginning. Though I will say I've always loved my fat arse and shapely legs...
So I guess I just wanted to have a dialogue (don't know if it's been done before...probably so) about fat women and the supposed ideal shapes in the fat community.
