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Okay, so I'm in need of advice.
There's this guy, Matt, who I have a crush on. He's smart, cute, talented, funny, etc, etc.... But he's been dancing back and forth between "single" "it's complicated" and "in a relationship" on facebook all week. Tonight his status was something like "oh, I'll never get a girl that'll be with me very long". So I sent him a message saying "oh matt, don't worry. You're smart, you're really really cute, you're talented, you're funny, you're kind, and you're just super. There will be a girl for you soon enough. Be ready to open your heart to anyone." thinking that MAYBE he'd be able to catch my drift.
We continued to talk. I asked him out (to go get coffee and see a movie) and he said yes! But not even 20 minutes later, he's all up on my news feed as "in a relationship"... and it's not with me.
What happened? Is it safe to still pursue him? Or should I back off? Should I tell him I like him? What should I do?
There's this guy, Matt, who I have a crush on. He's smart, cute, talented, funny, etc, etc.... But he's been dancing back and forth between "single" "it's complicated" and "in a relationship" on facebook all week. Tonight his status was something like "oh, I'll never get a girl that'll be with me very long". So I sent him a message saying "oh matt, don't worry. You're smart, you're really really cute, you're talented, you're funny, you're kind, and you're just super. There will be a girl for you soon enough. Be ready to open your heart to anyone." thinking that MAYBE he'd be able to catch my drift.
We continued to talk. I asked him out (to go get coffee and see a movie) and he said yes! But not even 20 minutes later, he's all up on my news feed as "in a relationship"... and it's not with me.
What happened? Is it safe to still pursue him? Or should I back off? Should I tell him I like him? What should I do?
