Just some thoughts I would like to share with the young BBW's out there and any other women I guess.
Just read this thread and it got me thinking about an ongoing issue I seem to run into with BBW's in particular the young ones out there. Confidence!
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=90437
This is going back about 3 or 4 years now but I met this absolutely stunning young girl through work one day. Spoke to her only a few times in passing yet thanks to her eye batting, hair flicking and general redness when talking with me I quickly got the feeling she liked me as much as I liked her, so naturally I got her number and phoned her up the next day to ask her out.
Something i normally wouldn't do, but this girl was just too cute to resist.
Very surprised to hear from me she agreed to a simple coffee and movie date with what I can only describe as genuine enthusiasm, however due to a big work conference that was happening that week she changed plans on me, which is fine because i knew it to be true as i was also attending the same event.
Once at the conference however things went weird.
(At the time i didn't understand, now i recon she worked herself up about agreeing to a date with me and got very, very nervous / anxious)
Spotting her in a group of other women i walked up to her and said hello, as you do! (pretending to ignore people when you clearly like them/already asked them out on a date is stupid)
Now instead of saying hello back to me she stood there like a dear caught in the headlights for a second, got very red turned around and walked away, leaving me standing amongst a group of other women who probably thought i had done something terrible to the poor girl.
Later that night as i was seated at my table with other co-workers i spotted this girl again at a nearby table. Throughout the evening she began changing tables and moving closer and closer to where i was sitting. weird
As the evening wore on i got up the courage to ask her to dance, only to find she was seriously slurring her words and somewhat wasted. She did however reply with a "yes of course, I'd love to but not right now, ask me again later"
Not being able to help myself i replied in a joking manner "thats cool, i can take a hint!" before proceeding to walk off.
Just as i turned she grabs my arm and replies "No i wasn't trying to give you a hint i really do want to dance just a little later" (me is now really confused)
Being me however i ended up on the dance floor with another group of girls and had a ball, didn't see her again that night and got sick of chasing.
The next day i did phone her again to see if she still wanted to go out, i wasn't going to give up because i really had the hots for her but really wanted to get to know her as a person.
No reply, tried a few times sent a few txts...nothing, so eventually i gave up downed half bottle of Whisky (bad idea) and attempted to move on.
I did get a txt from her a few days later with a cop-out excuses about "Just broke up with my boyfriend, not looking for anything serious right now thanks"
Never said anything about serious just wanted a simple date honestly D:
Not wanting to seem like some weirdo stalker i let her go after that.
Anyway I did the blunder of all things the other day and looked her up on Facebook. Big mistake.
Looking at her photos and posts it's clear to me now this girl has sadly become a loser by her own design.
She has gone from having a good job to being semi employed - being in the same position she was years ago, which is sad because i think she was actually very bright and could do much better in her carrier.
She hangs out with what can only be descried as yahoo, professional unemployed bums getting drunk every other day and trolling about town.
Her dress sense has gone to crap and she now wears baggy covered up clothes to hide her brilliant curves.
If i look at her likes and things it's clear this girl has body image issues as there are tons of things about losing weight and getting a bikini bod, diet plans, big boobs on fat girls dont count, get skinny get a boyfriend, why dot guys ask me out etc. etc.
Worst thing for me being a FA is she's gained about 30 pounds, but it looks like it's mainly from boozing to much :/
Also her gorgeous long hair has been ruined with way to much bleach. yuck
My point is this.
1: Dont sell yourself short ladies. If you like a guy and he shows genuine interest and asks you out in a decent fashion just do it. Stuff the anxiety and panic attacks that come with going on a date, we all have it. Even the "hot" guys and girls.
2: No matter what guys say, the male penis doesn't lie. Tall or short, fat or thin hot is hot. Guys that say different are lying to you! It's the overall package looks and personality that count.
3: Unless a guy is a complete weirdo who loves torturing himself for fun - the fact is the amount of courage it takes for most guys to ask you out, even really good looking confident guys is huge!!! In fact the better looking the guy the more likely he is worried about being turned down by you, trust me on this.
Not to sound like ass blowing my own horn but this girls life would have been very different i think had we gone out.
Maybe its just sour grapes but in hind sight i cant have seen it working due to the type of life she leads and the people she hangs out with. I feel sorry for her but there is really nothing i can do to help her. Just wish i could tell her how beautiful i thought she was and how i was totally infatuated with her at the time, what a body!
I'm 27 years old now, run my own company which makes good money, own a small house, nice car, travelled, come from a good family with strict values and upbringing, good looking, 6 '4 built, funny, genuine confident nice guy.
Wish i could find the same in a young BBW. :wubu:
By the way this isn't my only story with young BBW's unfortunately. :really sad:
Anyway end of my rant :goodbye:
Just read this thread and it got me thinking about an ongoing issue I seem to run into with BBW's in particular the young ones out there. Confidence!
http://www.dimensionsmagazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=90437
This is going back about 3 or 4 years now but I met this absolutely stunning young girl through work one day. Spoke to her only a few times in passing yet thanks to her eye batting, hair flicking and general redness when talking with me I quickly got the feeling she liked me as much as I liked her, so naturally I got her number and phoned her up the next day to ask her out.
Something i normally wouldn't do, but this girl was just too cute to resist.
Very surprised to hear from me she agreed to a simple coffee and movie date with what I can only describe as genuine enthusiasm, however due to a big work conference that was happening that week she changed plans on me, which is fine because i knew it to be true as i was also attending the same event.
Once at the conference however things went weird.
(At the time i didn't understand, now i recon she worked herself up about agreeing to a date with me and got very, very nervous / anxious)
Spotting her in a group of other women i walked up to her and said hello, as you do! (pretending to ignore people when you clearly like them/already asked them out on a date is stupid)
Now instead of saying hello back to me she stood there like a dear caught in the headlights for a second, got very red turned around and walked away, leaving me standing amongst a group of other women who probably thought i had done something terrible to the poor girl.
Later that night as i was seated at my table with other co-workers i spotted this girl again at a nearby table. Throughout the evening she began changing tables and moving closer and closer to where i was sitting. weird
As the evening wore on i got up the courage to ask her to dance, only to find she was seriously slurring her words and somewhat wasted. She did however reply with a "yes of course, I'd love to but not right now, ask me again later"
Not being able to help myself i replied in a joking manner "thats cool, i can take a hint!" before proceeding to walk off.
Just as i turned she grabs my arm and replies "No i wasn't trying to give you a hint i really do want to dance just a little later" (me is now really confused)
Being me however i ended up on the dance floor with another group of girls and had a ball, didn't see her again that night and got sick of chasing.
The next day i did phone her again to see if she still wanted to go out, i wasn't going to give up because i really had the hots for her but really wanted to get to know her as a person.
No reply, tried a few times sent a few txts...nothing, so eventually i gave up downed half bottle of Whisky (bad idea) and attempted to move on.
I did get a txt from her a few days later with a cop-out excuses about "Just broke up with my boyfriend, not looking for anything serious right now thanks"
Never said anything about serious just wanted a simple date honestly D:
Not wanting to seem like some weirdo stalker i let her go after that.
Anyway I did the blunder of all things the other day and looked her up on Facebook. Big mistake.
Looking at her photos and posts it's clear to me now this girl has sadly become a loser by her own design.
She has gone from having a good job to being semi employed - being in the same position she was years ago, which is sad because i think she was actually very bright and could do much better in her carrier.
She hangs out with what can only be descried as yahoo, professional unemployed bums getting drunk every other day and trolling about town.
Her dress sense has gone to crap and she now wears baggy covered up clothes to hide her brilliant curves.
If i look at her likes and things it's clear this girl has body image issues as there are tons of things about losing weight and getting a bikini bod, diet plans, big boobs on fat girls dont count, get skinny get a boyfriend, why dot guys ask me out etc. etc.
Worst thing for me being a FA is she's gained about 30 pounds, but it looks like it's mainly from boozing to much :/
Also her gorgeous long hair has been ruined with way to much bleach. yuck
My point is this.
1: Dont sell yourself short ladies. If you like a guy and he shows genuine interest and asks you out in a decent fashion just do it. Stuff the anxiety and panic attacks that come with going on a date, we all have it. Even the "hot" guys and girls.
2: No matter what guys say, the male penis doesn't lie. Tall or short, fat or thin hot is hot. Guys that say different are lying to you! It's the overall package looks and personality that count.
3: Unless a guy is a complete weirdo who loves torturing himself for fun - the fact is the amount of courage it takes for most guys to ask you out, even really good looking confident guys is huge!!! In fact the better looking the guy the more likely he is worried about being turned down by you, trust me on this.
Not to sound like ass blowing my own horn but this girls life would have been very different i think had we gone out.
Maybe its just sour grapes but in hind sight i cant have seen it working due to the type of life she leads and the people she hangs out with. I feel sorry for her but there is really nothing i can do to help her. Just wish i could tell her how beautiful i thought she was and how i was totally infatuated with her at the time, what a body!
I'm 27 years old now, run my own company which makes good money, own a small house, nice car, travelled, come from a good family with strict values and upbringing, good looking, 6 '4 built, funny, genuine confident nice guy.
Wish i could find the same in a young BBW. :wubu:
By the way this isn't my only story with young BBW's unfortunately. :really sad:
Anyway end of my rant :goodbye:
