my wife has always known that I prefer curves. she was very thin when we got married. over 20 years and 100lbs she has been somewhat reluctantly gaining. last year she saw that i had visited this site and got upset and could not believe i liked big women. She thinks i don't care about her health. I have bought ABdoule, tread mill, stationary bike , exercise ball, exercise tapes, and gym memberships. She saw that i visited this site again and now threaten weight watchers. she also says i dont care about her health and that all i want to do is get her fat. yes i like the bigger , curvier, but i support the health , don't know how what i should do next