diet or not to diet?

[Tigerhawk]

My friend has gained weight since August. She did not realize it or actually believe it to be that much of a gain until a visit to her doctor. Most of her friends are telling her she needs to diet. To her surprise, I have not. She thought I would have been the first person to tell her she needs to lose a few, because I found her attractive in August.
I told her, “I will find you attractive, no matter what you weigh.” I also told her that weight is not an issue with me. She has said she would exercise more and diet, yet she has not and probably will not. She does not have the desire to diet, and I have told her repeatedly that any diet she may choose to do is for herself and not for me.
She has allowed me to let me post three photos and receive anyone’s comments on whether she should diet or be happy with what she is now. After a few days her photos will be removed.

She was quite surprised to find out about Dimensions and other FA communities, and she would value your experienced opinions.

August, 2005 She is in the Red
**image removed per request of original poster**
Halloween, 2005 She and I
**image removed per request of original poster**

February, 2006 She is in the Green at my birthday party.
**image removed per request of original poster**

 

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