I have a good male friend who came over yesterday to help me out while waiting for the a/c guy to come. Cleaned up the house in the area where the ac is, cleaned the gutters and other stuff I don't do very well as I don't have a ladder that is rated for supporting my weight, stayed and made sure the a/c guy didn't rip me off, etc. After the a/c guy left we went to the store to buy padlocks for the new breaker box and a hose to rinse off the condenser unit.
We had a really interesting conversation, in which he stated his goal was to make sure my house was in a condition for me to have sex every night. I was like "No way, there is way too much stuff on TV and I don't have a bf anyway." He finds it astonishing that I have gone for over a year without sex. I find it...unremarkable. BTW, this guy has a girlfriend - he is not interested in me.
Anyway, he was single when he met me and said he found it strange that I did not seem lonely and seemed quite fulfilled. He got divorced in Feb of this year and says from February to May is the longest he has gone without a relationship since college. (he's 38). He says he gets lonely, depressed, etc when he doesn't have a relationship. The girl he is dating now broke up with her last boyfriend less than a month ago.
Anyway, I was just wondering if not being lonely and being fulfilled are actually barriers to relationship finding. I would run the other way fast from anyone who got divorced this past February and wanted to embark on a serious relationship in May, so it is probably quite good that he decided he didn't want to date me.
We had a really interesting conversation, in which he stated his goal was to make sure my house was in a condition for me to have sex every night. I was like "No way, there is way too much stuff on TV and I don't have a bf anyway." He finds it astonishing that I have gone for over a year without sex. I find it...unremarkable. BTW, this guy has a girlfriend - he is not interested in me.
Anyway, he was single when he met me and said he found it strange that I did not seem lonely and seemed quite fulfilled. He got divorced in Feb of this year and says from February to May is the longest he has gone without a relationship since college. (he's 38). He says he gets lonely, depressed, etc when he doesn't have a relationship. The girl he is dating now broke up with her last boyfriend less than a month ago.
Anyway, I was just wondering if not being lonely and being fulfilled are actually barriers to relationship finding. I would run the other way fast from anyone who got divorced this past February and wanted to embark on a serious relationship in May, so it is probably quite good that he decided he didn't want to date me.
