That's the title of an Oprah.com story I just read on CNN.com. I found it interesting and saw a little bit of myself in it. I think that it might be of value to some women here, especially those who have rejected a partner's 'you're so pretty' comments (which, oddly enough, I never have! haha)
http://articles.cnn.com/2010-09-15/...ndrix-relationships-genuine-love?_s=PM:LIVING
http://articles.cnn.com/2010-09-15/...ndrix-relationships-genuine-love?_s=PM:LIVING