MisticalMisty
Well-Known Member
I'm sure I'm on the only person on the site who is engaging or has engaged in online dating. There are times that I'm ready to pull my hair out. So, I thought those of us that give online dating a try, could write a list of dos and don'ts.
Do:
Do be polite. Remember you are talking to someone's daughter or sister. Imagine if someone was being a creepy ass to your sister. Wouldn't that piss you off?
Do follow thru. If you are the pursuer, follow thru. Don't make a date and then not show up. Granted, life happens. There is no excuse for not dropping an email, sending a text or leaving a voice mail. Remember polite from earlier? Yeah, have the common courtesy to tell me that you can't make it.
Do ask questions. Feel free to ask questions about me. However, leave my sex life out of it for the time being thank you. Let's wait until conversation 2 or 3 for that one. If I'm looking for a fwb, I'll let you know. Don't assume it..because you know what they say about assuming.
Don'ts
Don't expect sex. Just because I'm a fat girl doesn't mean that I'm easy. Don't message me expecting to get your appendage off...honestly..it ain't going to happen.
Don't try to insult me if things don't work out. Come on now, be a grown up. Just because we didn't click or I've chosen not to further communicate with you, doesn't mean you need to bust out the "insults." OH..FYI Fat isn't an insult to me...I call myself a fat girl in my ad.
Ok..that's all I have for now..anyone have anything to add?
Do:
Do be polite. Remember you are talking to someone's daughter or sister. Imagine if someone was being a creepy ass to your sister. Wouldn't that piss you off?
Do follow thru. If you are the pursuer, follow thru. Don't make a date and then not show up. Granted, life happens. There is no excuse for not dropping an email, sending a text or leaving a voice mail. Remember polite from earlier? Yeah, have the common courtesy to tell me that you can't make it.
Do ask questions. Feel free to ask questions about me. However, leave my sex life out of it for the time being thank you. Let's wait until conversation 2 or 3 for that one. If I'm looking for a fwb, I'll let you know. Don't assume it..because you know what they say about assuming.
Don'ts
Don't expect sex. Just because I'm a fat girl doesn't mean that I'm easy. Don't message me expecting to get your appendage off...honestly..it ain't going to happen.
Don't try to insult me if things don't work out. Come on now, be a grown up. Just because we didn't click or I've chosen not to further communicate with you, doesn't mean you need to bust out the "insults." OH..FYI Fat isn't an insult to me...I call myself a fat girl in my ad.
Ok..that's all I have for now..anyone have anything to add?
