I'm back poking around at Dims after something like 6 mos. gone (and shouldn't be; full disclosure--I have a major project due and am procrastinating; please tell me to stop posting) and I see a lot of dudes posting on the BBW board.
The few times I've posted on the FA/FFA board (even though I have some tendencies), it hasn't usually gone too well. Fair enough, I'm not dyed-in-the-wool, and certainly everyone has a right to a protected space to post his/her stuff. I get it.
But then I'm reading threads here, started by women looking for advice from other women, and it's a mini sausage party. hahaha. I don't mean mini sausage, but mini party. I'm guessing that if the average woman wanted advice from all sexes (see how I didn't type 'both' there, Dims?) she'd just post on the Main board. Maybe I'm wrong about this.
So have the rules changed? Relaxed? Am I, indeed, wrong about this? What's the state of the debate?
I'd like to hear your feedback. If you have a clam, that is.
The few times I've posted on the FA/FFA board (even though I have some tendencies), it hasn't usually gone too well. Fair enough, I'm not dyed-in-the-wool, and certainly everyone has a right to a protected space to post his/her stuff. I get it.
But then I'm reading threads here, started by women looking for advice from other women, and it's a mini sausage party. hahaha. I don't mean mini sausage, but mini party. I'm guessing that if the average woman wanted advice from all sexes (see how I didn't type 'both' there, Dims?) she'd just post on the Main board. Maybe I'm wrong about this.
So have the rules changed? Relaxed? Am I, indeed, wrong about this? What's the state of the debate?
I'd like to hear your feedback. If you have a clam, that is.
