superodalisque
Well-Known Member
what level of emotional intelligence in your SO works for you? should they be cued in or are you ready to work with them a lot. do you think all of the "i didn't know" excuses are genuine or are they mainly a put on for avoidance sake? do you think its right that we tend to expect less emotional intelligence form men that women--or do we?
where i am at this point in my life is that i really like a high level of emotional intelligence. i've kind of run out of patience. i like as close to move in condition as i can get. i think my age has a lot to do with it. i tend to try to date a lot inside of my age group. if a man hasn't developed some emotional understanding by then i wonder if he ever will. will he? can you teach an old dog new tricks? when i was younger i think i was much more willing but now i just want to get on with living instead of what i now think of as making the preparations. i don't know if this is the right way to think or not but its how i feel anyway.
where i am at this point in my life is that i really like a high level of emotional intelligence. i've kind of run out of patience. i like as close to move in condition as i can get. i think my age has a lot to do with it. i tend to try to date a lot inside of my age group. if a man hasn't developed some emotional understanding by then i wonder if he ever will. will he? can you teach an old dog new tricks? when i was younger i think i was much more willing but now i just want to get on with living instead of what i now think of as making the preparations. i don't know if this is the right way to think or not but its how i feel anyway.