Hi, everybody! I have an FA friend who's an up and coming performer. Because he's in the public eye, he feels he has to hide his preference for SSBBW. Before he became an entertainer, he had no problem being seen with SSBBW, but because of society's attitudes towards them, he fears it will damage his career if he makes his preference public.
I've been trying to help him with this problem, as he performs around the world and is lonely for female companionship. He gets approached by a lot of young, thin female fans, whose interest he can't afford to lose, so he divulges to none of them how he feels.
One of the things I wanted to point out to him is that there are very famous guys who like big women, and they make no bones about it. However, I can't remember who any of them are (can you say "old age ain't for sissies?"
). It occurred to me that many of you savvy FAs here at DIM probably know who many of these performers are, and I'm hoping you'll share their names with me.
Also, if you have any other suggestions for him (be nice, please ), feel free to state them, too. I've already given him the speech about how he's doing both himself and SSBBWs a disservice by staying in the closet. When a public figure "outs" himself, it makes the public more aware of the problem, enlightening many of them, and most will be supportive. If they really like your music, they're not going to stop coming to your concerts simply because they don't agree with your sexual preferences.
Thanks, guys! :bow: ~Bountifully, Fuchsia
I've been trying to help him with this problem, as he performs around the world and is lonely for female companionship. He gets approached by a lot of young, thin female fans, whose interest he can't afford to lose, so he divulges to none of them how he feels.
One of the things I wanted to point out to him is that there are very famous guys who like big women, and they make no bones about it. However, I can't remember who any of them are (can you say "old age ain't for sissies?"
). It occurred to me that many of you savvy FAs here at DIM probably know who many of these performers are, and I'm hoping you'll share their names with me.Also, if you have any other suggestions for him (be nice, please
), feel free to state them, too. I've already given him the speech about how he's doing both himself and SSBBWs a disservice by staying in the closet. When a public figure "outs" himself, it makes the public more aware of the problem, enlightening many of them, and most will be supportive. If they really like your music, they're not going to stop coming to your concerts simply because they don't agree with your sexual preferences.Thanks, guys! :bow: ~Bountifully, Fuchsia
