roundrevelry
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I've been in a hand full of long and short term relationships. But never with someone who I thought was too attractive for me. Now I know "too attractive" is something I probably fabricated in my head. However the gorgeous girl I've been chatting with via a dating site (okcupid) is to me at least what I'd consider out of my league.
I'm confident in my looks. My biggest insecurity is my weight. This is where I need help. Some of you guys who post here are bigger than me, some smaller but so many of you seem to have the confidence to go after your dream girls. The kicker is that I know she prefers large men. And she's quite average as far as weight goes. I've just never been on the receiving end of this!
I would really like to get over this insecurity fast. Thus far we get on great. We make each other laugh etc, etc.... all good stuff. Help me here! :doh:
I've got confidence in so many things I do. How do I find it for this situation?
I'm confident in my looks. My biggest insecurity is my weight. This is where I need help. Some of you guys who post here are bigger than me, some smaller but so many of you seem to have the confidence to go after your dream girls. The kicker is that I know she prefers large men. And she's quite average as far as weight goes. I've just never been on the receiving end of this!
I would really like to get over this insecurity fast. Thus far we get on great. We make each other laugh etc, etc.... all good stuff. Help me here! :doh:
I've got confidence in so many things I do. How do I find it for this situation?