We get a vicarious thrill out of having people find us attractive. Some more than others. This seems to grow in direct proportion to the amount of scorn we receive in our daily lives, in our work place, from friends and well meaning relatives and even from the people that love us most.
http://www.seonnahong.com/seonnahong/imx/images/flirting.jpg
Sometimes in the chat room side bar, we pose naked, tantalizing and very suggestive images of ourselves in the for fun. I do this too. It gets juices going and flirty conversations erupting in a playful way.
The response in the room is very usually very positive. This excites us to change things up and encourages us to put even more artistic shots that come as close to decency rules as possible.
http://clampettstudio.com/images/archives/hannabarbera/TW1168-Cindy-Flirting-Yogi.jpg
For the most part, i get a lot out of the feedback I receive from posting a new very risqué photo.
Sometimes though, the line between drooling, trolling and flirting in the open room embarrasses me. I wonder about it.
There was a new very attractive man in the chat room. A woman was saying things like "you can do me now!" as a kind of welcome to him.
Many of her comments were really past my comfort line and I am by no means a prude. It was distracting. We were having a conversation with a million different directions, as usual, and everything came back to what this woman wanted to do to this man.
When we were kidding with her about her being happily married, she got rude because her husband has no problems with her flirting in the dim chat room.
Now, this is a woman I like a lot, and in general have a respect for and this post is not at all about her, it is more about my reactions and my trying to figure out what is acceptable.
He seemed to be amused, and she was too by the dirty talk.
Where is the line between acceptable flirting and trolling?
Do we have the same lines in the sand when it pertains to men or to women?
Is the time of day a factor?
For myself, I post different pictures in daytime, for sure.
I am just pondering here.
http://www.incisive.nu/images/counsel/flirting.jpg
Please do not slam me too hard for bringing up this touchy subject.
Olive
http://www.texaschapbookpress.com/chiliastichideon/reddot/flirt.htm
http://www.seonnahong.com/seonnahong/imx/images/flirting.jpg
Sometimes in the chat room side bar, we pose naked, tantalizing and very suggestive images of ourselves in the for fun. I do this too. It gets juices going and flirty conversations erupting in a playful way.
The response in the room is very usually very positive. This excites us to change things up and encourages us to put even more artistic shots that come as close to decency rules as possible.
http://clampettstudio.com/images/archives/hannabarbera/TW1168-Cindy-Flirting-Yogi.jpg
For the most part, i get a lot out of the feedback I receive from posting a new very risqué photo.
Sometimes though, the line between drooling, trolling and flirting in the open room embarrasses me. I wonder about it.
There was a new very attractive man in the chat room. A woman was saying things like "you can do me now!" as a kind of welcome to him.
Many of her comments were really past my comfort line and I am by no means a prude. It was distracting. We were having a conversation with a million different directions, as usual, and everything came back to what this woman wanted to do to this man.
When we were kidding with her about her being happily married, she got rude because her husband has no problems with her flirting in the dim chat room.
Now, this is a woman I like a lot, and in general have a respect for and this post is not at all about her, it is more about my reactions and my trying to figure out what is acceptable.
He seemed to be amused, and she was too by the dirty talk.
Where is the line between acceptable flirting and trolling?
Do we have the same lines in the sand when it pertains to men or to women?
Is the time of day a factor?
For myself, I post different pictures in daytime, for sure.
I am just pondering here.
http://www.incisive.nu/images/counsel/flirting.jpg
Please do not slam me too hard for bringing up this touchy subject.
Olive
http://www.texaschapbookpress.com/chiliastichideon/reddot/flirt.htm
