I kinda gave up on finding a chubby guy for a while... I just figured it'd be better to go off of personality instead. And thank god for that, because good karma finally came back around. :wubu:
I asked this guy out at the beginning of the semester but he had just come out of an 8-year relationship and said no. A little while back I myspace'd him, asking if he wanted to redeem my offer, and we've been dating since then. Last night, though, I got a very, very lovely surprise.
Usually he wears hoodies and baggy jeans, so I've never really noticed his physique before. He has a bit of a chubby face, but I figured that it was just how his face was. He was talking about his life, and mentioned "all this weight" he hasn't been able to get rid of since he went through a bad phase in his life. I tried to keep from grinning... I'd never noticed he had a belly on him before (as it was hidden, ya know?)
I didn't say anything about my FFA status, but I did manage to get his shirt off, and I wanted to yell "THANK GOD! FINALLY!" He's got a beautiful (albeit small, in comparison to some of the guys on here :smitten
belly, and I am a very happy girl
I guess good things come to those who wait.
I do have a question, though: he seems a bit unhappy with his weight, since he talked about it in a negative light, though he didn't have any problem with me covering his chub in kisses. I don't think it would be wise to straight up tell him that I'm an FFA... How do I help him feel comfortable at the weight he is without explaining it out? I wouldn't mind if he lost weight (or gained some :happy but I want to help him feel good about himself, as is.
Anybody have experience with this?
I asked this guy out at the beginning of the semester but he had just come out of an 8-year relationship and said no. A little while back I myspace'd him, asking if he wanted to redeem my offer, and we've been dating since then. Last night, though, I got a very, very lovely surprise.
Usually he wears hoodies and baggy jeans, so I've never really noticed his physique before. He has a bit of a chubby face, but I figured that it was just how his face was. He was talking about his life, and mentioned "all this weight" he hasn't been able to get rid of since he went through a bad phase in his life. I tried to keep from grinning... I'd never noticed he had a belly on him before (as it was hidden, ya know?)
I didn't say anything about my FFA status, but I did manage to get his shirt off, and I wanted to yell "THANK GOD! FINALLY!" He's got a beautiful (albeit small, in comparison to some of the guys on here :smitten
belly, and I am a very happy girl I guess good things come to those who wait.
I do have a question, though: he seems a bit unhappy with his weight, since he talked about it in a negative light, though he didn't have any problem with me covering his chub in kisses. I don't think it would be wise to straight up tell him that I'm an FFA... How do I help him feel comfortable at the weight he is without explaining it out? I wouldn't mind if he lost weight (or gained some
:happy but I want to help him feel good about himself, as is.Anybody have experience with this?
