I truly love a woman of size. I'm not tall, I'm about 5'8" and a wopping 170lbs. My wife is shorter ofcorse 5'3" and is about 250-270 or so. I would love for her to gain, not to the point of immobility, I do not mean any disrespect by saying that, but atlest to about 320-350. My quest is this, her health. can it be compromised, might she be at greater risks by gaining so much weight. When we first me 15yrs ago she was about 160 or so lbs. After the kids she has really pack on the weight, but the gain has seam to stop some how. She has not gone over 270, I think. She is healthy as can be no, cholesterol problems no hippertension, and no blood pressure issues ither. How do I encourage her, without seaming scenical or stupid? She says she isn't trying to loose but at times I think different. Ladies might you comment!