help with me as a bbm

[pbure0110]

well here is some info about me so you can better understand the question. i am bbm and im 19 going to be 20 in january and well i take care of my self as far as grooming my self and dressing well etc etc and i feel comfortable with my weight as a bbm and all that. also i live in florida 10 min out side miami and have been living on my own from the age of 17 and living nice, i drive a nice 08 suv got it fresh off the lot. the thing is i can't seem to b able to get a women who likes a bbm i mean i had girl friend(s) be for(like 3 or 4 in my life but spread out over the years) but it was not for a long time and some were just toying with me and ended up it was a fake relationship. also im one of these guys who have "moral values" no cheating, no lieing, and i respect them 100% and most of the time i go on that 1st be for looks. i also i don't care if the chick is a bbw im not looking for a skinny 10+ girl no im looking for some one who has values and is not but ugly but u know in the middle and up, but things don't seem to be working for me. i mean i talk 2 girls all the time infact i jus gave 2 girls(who were friends) my # last night but we eather end up not talking or become best friends. now im starting to question if its because im a bbm and the weight and what not, and i keep thinking if i just lose the weight and may be bulk up at least a little bit so i dont look like a pinkey finger the girls who think im the best friend would change there minds about that and may be we would go out. i think they don't like my looks but thy like how i act thats why there are my best friend and we hang out every day in three weeks straight. so i am just wondering what should i do to go about this?

 

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