I just found this website . I have a question for some of you out there. I am engaged , my fiance met me when I was a size 8, not skinny but good for me. I have always been curvy. When he moved in last year I gained 60 pounds in 8 months. I am now a size 16-18. Ughhhhhhh . He is very thin and doesnt mind my weight gain at all, which I think is very strange. He supports me eating healthy and if I want to lose or stay the same it doesnt matter. He knows I try to diet yet every day he brings me ice cream and my favorite food. Today was the cheese cake factory. My question is did any of the guys here meet thier women when they were thin and then they gained weight? I think he may like me heavier because I wont get as much male attention. I used to go out every night and get guys attention easily, now I want to stay in and yes eat. Anyway Im wondering if thier really is a desire for a heavier woman, sorry it is VERY hard for me to understand this as all of my life thin= beauty.