eightyseven
Ridiculous.
In the past, I've always been curious about whether or not the girls that I've dated or had "things" with have been into me just because of my personality (I'd like to hope that's why there were interested) or if they were also into bigger guys as well (I'm 5'10'', 235 lbs.). Many times, it just never came up as a topic, or even if she did mention slightly that she liked that I was bigger (I've gotten the "I like linemen type" line once or twice), her dating patterns as far as the build of guys she's been with is entirely inconsistent. The other thing too is that I like big girls myself... so it can be even more of a challenge to figure out if she's into my body because she is often bigger than me.
So how do I go about figuring this out? I'm not really into the whole explicitly asking thing... it's too upfront for me and I'm afraid it would be awkward. Do I observe the way/where she touches me? I just don't know how to approach this because while all I really care about is that she's attracted to me in general, it would be nice to know if it's physical too. Thanks in advance for your advice/thoughts!
So how do I go about figuring this out? I'm not really into the whole explicitly asking thing... it's too upfront for me and I'm afraid it would be awkward. Do I observe the way/where she touches me? I just don't know how to approach this because while all I really care about is that she's attracted to me in general, it would be nice to know if it's physical too. Thanks in advance for your advice/thoughts!
