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But I've come to the realization that the covert ffa role has it's drawbacks, mostly cause us guys may not get it if we decide to diet and you aren't happy, add to that even hooking up with a big guy may be difficult if you vocalize your interest in his fat early on. Aside from all that, I don't know how many thin ffas recognize that their desires have a name...
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But I've come to the realization that the covert ffa role has it's drawbacks, mostly cause us guys may not get it if we decide to diet and you aren't happy, add to that even hooking up with a big guy may be difficult if you vocalize your interest in his fat early on. Aside from all that, I don't know how many thin ffas recognize that their desires have a name...
So I'm wondering for the ladies here who didn't come first to dims to explore bbw issues... how did you discover that your desire had a name? How did you find yourself at dims?
