SisterGoldenHair
Well-Known Member
There really is nothing better than hugging a fat guy.
I got a hug from a male coworker on my third or fourth day of my new job (i've been there about a month now)... it was just kind of a silly greeting. He's a real dear, he helped me out a lot and still checks up on me every once in a while.
Anyway, he's this really cute, really big guy. And he gave me a hug! Yay! In fact it's happened more than once. We're kind of "job buddies" now. Now, hugs are awesome from anybody... but especially from fat guys!
I mean, i feel kind of silly talking about this- but he was so... soft. I've never hugged a guy that big. It was nice. For a couple of reasons. Firstly, i mean, what's not great about a random hug? When you hug someone you hardly know it suddenly makes you feel like you're already good friends.
And also, because i'm an FFA to the core, 24 hrs a day/7 days a week. And for an FFA, if i may speak for all of us, hugging a fat guy is one of life's simple pleasures.
I know my boyfriend will never be that big. Which is a teeny bit of a bummer. But not really, 'cause he's inhumanly gorgeous and i have no desire to alter his appearance or to change him in any way, he's perfect. But i can't help being curious as to what it would be like to be with a guy my coworker's size (I have no vast experience with men, i've only had two boyfriends, including this one, and the first relationship left me VERY innocent). You know what i'm saying? I don't want to run off and cheat with my coworker, it's nothing like that, i'd never do that sort of thing. I'm totally in love with him and the thought of actually being with someone else is... wrong. But i can imagine, can't i? That's not wrong, is it?
Gah, if you girls could see him you'd know what i mean. He is SO cute! And a great person, too; i'd love to have him as a friend. And he's a great hugger! Hahaha.
Anyway... i realize this is kind of a scattered post... but i'm also grappling with the fact that i still have a pretty active fantasy life even though i'm totally satisfied in real life. Is that normal? I mean, i'm an ass, of course it's normal, i've even heard statistics that people who are sexually satisfied/fulfilled have more fantasies/fantasize more than people who aren't, and fantasy is essential to psychological health. I don't remember where i heard that, i think i read it somewhere. Point is, it's not about this one cute guy at work. It's about movie stars and book/movie characters and comic book superheros/villains, AND the odd cute guy at work.
i guess this could've been two different posts... but there we are. i usually end up just pouring my guts out on here. haha. anyway... penny for your thoughts?
I got a hug from a male coworker on my third or fourth day of my new job (i've been there about a month now)... it was just kind of a silly greeting. He's a real dear, he helped me out a lot and still checks up on me every once in a while.
Anyway, he's this really cute, really big guy. And he gave me a hug! Yay! In fact it's happened more than once. We're kind of "job buddies" now. Now, hugs are awesome from anybody... but especially from fat guys!
I mean, i feel kind of silly talking about this- but he was so... soft. I've never hugged a guy that big. It was nice. For a couple of reasons. Firstly, i mean, what's not great about a random hug? When you hug someone you hardly know it suddenly makes you feel like you're already good friends.
And also, because i'm an FFA to the core, 24 hrs a day/7 days a week. And for an FFA, if i may speak for all of us, hugging a fat guy is one of life's simple pleasures.
I know my boyfriend will never be that big. Which is a teeny bit of a bummer. But not really, 'cause he's inhumanly gorgeous and i have no desire to alter his appearance or to change him in any way, he's perfect. But i can't help being curious as to what it would be like to be with a guy my coworker's size (I have no vast experience with men, i've only had two boyfriends, including this one, and the first relationship left me VERY innocent). You know what i'm saying? I don't want to run off and cheat with my coworker, it's nothing like that, i'd never do that sort of thing. I'm totally in love with him and the thought of actually being with someone else is... wrong. But i can imagine, can't i? That's not wrong, is it?
Gah, if you girls could see him you'd know what i mean. He is SO cute! And a great person, too; i'd love to have him as a friend. And he's a great hugger! Hahaha.
Anyway... i realize this is kind of a scattered post... but i'm also grappling with the fact that i still have a pretty active fantasy life even though i'm totally satisfied in real life. Is that normal? I mean, i'm an ass, of course it's normal, i've even heard statistics that people who are sexually satisfied/fulfilled have more fantasies/fantasize more than people who aren't, and fantasy is essential to psychological health. I don't remember where i heard that, i think i read it somewhere. Point is, it's not about this one cute guy at work. It's about movie stars and book/movie characters and comic book superheros/villains, AND the odd cute guy at work.
i guess this could've been two different posts... but there we are. i usually end up just pouring my guts out on here. haha. anyway... penny for your thoughts?
