I have read on this board that there are some girls who don't really like dating men who would be described as FAs. Though I don't know anyone in my social circles familiar with the term, I have also run into women who carry a disdain or distrust of "guys who like fat girls".
For example, an ex-girlfriend of mine once told me that she didn't want the next guy she dated to be an FA because she wanted him to simply like her despite her body and not because of it. I countered this by asking her what was wrong with a guy liking both her personality and her body, and her response was that being with an FA sometimes made her feel fetishized.
My question is, what qualities do you associate with FAs? What sort of stigma does the term carry? Are there other traits you associate with FAs aside from preferring the female form?
For example, an ex-girlfriend of mine once told me that she didn't want the next guy she dated to be an FA because she wanted him to simply like her despite her body and not because of it. I countered this by asking her what was wrong with a guy liking both her personality and her body, and her response was that being with an FA sometimes made her feel fetishized.
My question is, what qualities do you associate with FAs? What sort of stigma does the term carry? Are there other traits you associate with FAs aside from preferring the female form?
