I'm a black man thats shy as hell. I have missed out on some ladies I could have got with mainly because of the fact I'm shy I heard it's some medication that can help cure shyness is that true? Last night I went to get something to eat and this fine thick sista was looking at me and when I turned to look at her I put my head down another opportunity gone I hate being shy it sucks. This other time this fine latin female name gina was always flirting with me and I had a chance to hook up with her and I wimped out like a sucka this is killing me I'm getting older and here I am still can't defeat my shyness I don't know what to do.