bigsexy920
Ok I'll be good.
I have something I would like to talk about or mention.
Being single and a SSBBW, on occasion I get in discussions about my size with potential dates, almost always FA's. Latley I've noticed a pattern.
They can't STOP talking about my weight and how exciting it is to them, and how exciting it is that I'm powerful just becuase of my size. Even tho my muscles are weak.(I'd like to show you how weak my muscles are:shocked: )
I'm glad that there are FA's out there but, do I have to hear about "YOUR" fantasies and what turns you on about my size constantly? Can't there be some happy medium? Trust me men it gets old fast.
When I voice my thoughts on this to these men they then get the idea that I'm not comfortable with my size because I don't want to follow in the direction they would like me to go in the discussion.
I would imagine that if you like me it would be a given that you like nice large bellies and big thighs and white skin and all the things that make me who I am physically. BUT there is more to me than that, and I'm completely aware of what my body looks like and feels like and I totally understand why YOU as FA's would like it.
It would be like telling a thin girl, "I love how your bones stick out when you lie on your back" or "I love how when your hair is short I can't tell if you are a boy or a girl." I'm pretty sure that would be frowned upon. I cant be sure cause Ive NEVER had the body of a boy, the haircut, but not the body.
Why when I say I really don't want to go over YOUR image of me that you have in your head over and over again do I get comments like, " you are not comfortable with your size", or " Im not accepting of who I am"? I'm sorry but I find that offensive, and if you really think that of me then why are you even talking to me?
Well anyway that's it. Thanks for listening. :bow:
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Being single and a SSBBW, on occasion I get in discussions about my size with potential dates, almost always FA's. Latley I've noticed a pattern.
They can't STOP talking about my weight and how exciting it is to them, and how exciting it is that I'm powerful just becuase of my size. Even tho my muscles are weak.(I'd like to show you how weak my muscles are:shocked: )
I'm glad that there are FA's out there but, do I have to hear about "YOUR" fantasies and what turns you on about my size constantly? Can't there be some happy medium? Trust me men it gets old fast.
When I voice my thoughts on this to these men they then get the idea that I'm not comfortable with my size because I don't want to follow in the direction they would like me to go in the discussion.
I would imagine that if you like me it would be a given that you like nice large bellies and big thighs and white skin and all the things that make me who I am physically. BUT there is more to me than that, and I'm completely aware of what my body looks like and feels like and I totally understand why YOU as FA's would like it.
It would be like telling a thin girl, "I love how your bones stick out when you lie on your back" or "I love how when your hair is short I can't tell if you are a boy or a girl." I'm pretty sure that would be frowned upon. I cant be sure cause Ive NEVER had the body of a boy, the haircut, but not the body.
Why when I say I really don't want to go over YOUR image of me that you have in your head over and over again do I get comments like, " you are not comfortable with your size", or " Im not accepting of who I am"? I'm sorry but I find that offensive, and if you really think that of me then why are you even talking to me?
Well anyway that's it. Thanks for listening. :bow:
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