I went on a date last night with a guy who I met on a non BBW-specific dating site. Over drinks I mentioned that I found it a bit odd that he listed on his profile that he likes women who are "in shape" yet was obviously interested in me, who is definitely not that by conventional standards. His response- he either likes very thin, petite women, or big ones. I believe he called himself an "ass man." Nice. Not being a wilting lily, I asked him outright if he dates thin and fat women or if he just dates the thin ones and secretly lusts for/ has sex with the fat ones. He actually said YES, he has sex with big women but would never have one as his girlfriend! To my face! I asked him why he told me he was looking for a girlfriend if this was the case, and he said that was his way of getting me to meet him in person and I should just relax and have fun. I told him to do all the fat women in NYC a favor and go fuck himself. Did he really think that he was in any way appealing to me after saying all that?
He's obviously not a quality person and I'm glad he was honest for my own sake, but I was thoroughly shocked. Has anyone else ever encountered a guy who was so upfront/open about being a "closeted" FA?
He's obviously not a quality person and I'm glad he was honest for my own sake, but I was thoroughly shocked. Has anyone else ever encountered a guy who was so upfront/open about being a "closeted" FA?
