I'm completely blatant that I like big guys. Everyone at works knows and teases me when they see me checking someone out, my family knows, all my friends know, everyone that knows me at all is very aware that I'm not into the skinny or fit. I've never gotten any flack for it. Once in a while someone will say that it's weird, but not when I explain that I'm a cuddler and I just don't like to cuddle with rocks and sticks. 
Someone did say "you could do better," and I said I wasn't into settling for someone I wasn't attracted to, and that shut them up, but that was literally all.
Maybe I'm just not shy, but why do people act like it's something to hide? I never understood the "coming out" mentality. I haven't been honest about it until the past year or so because I never really realized it was such a strong preference of mine, but now everybody knows, and it's fine.
Someone did say "you could do better," and I said I wasn't into settling for someone I wasn't attracted to, and that shut them up, but that was literally all.Maybe I'm just not shy, but why do people act like it's something to hide? I never understood the "coming out" mentality. I haven't been honest about it until the past year or so because I never really realized it was such a strong preference of mine, but now everybody knows, and it's fine.
