MissAshley
Enigma
I am a social person and I like to keep in touch with family members, people from work, and friends. It always seems though that I will reach out and it's like pulling teeth to get them to talk to me.
Take my sister for example. (She is 24 and I am 26) She moved out of state a few years ago and I miss her. I would just like to talk to her to see how she is doing. I have called her and left voicemails, texted her, and sent her facebook messages. But she rarely gets back with me. I know she is probably busy with work, but I go on her facebook and she is constantly posting on her friend's walls and talking to our cousins. I found out that she has came back to town twice last year and hung out with her friends and never even mentioned her being home once to me. And it's not like we fight or anything. She has no reason to be mad at me, but it's obvious that she would rather talk to her friends and our cousins than me. I don't get it!
Is there any way I can motivate her to actually take the initiative with me like she does for others?
Take my sister for example. (She is 24 and I am 26) She moved out of state a few years ago and I miss her. I would just like to talk to her to see how she is doing. I have called her and left voicemails, texted her, and sent her facebook messages. But she rarely gets back with me. I know she is probably busy with work, but I go on her facebook and she is constantly posting on her friend's walls and talking to our cousins. I found out that she has came back to town twice last year and hung out with her friends and never even mentioned her being home once to me. And it's not like we fight or anything. She has no reason to be mad at me, but it's obvious that she would rather talk to her friends and our cousins than me. I don't get it!
Is there any way I can motivate her to actually take the initiative with me like she does for others?
