Here's something I've been pondering lately. To my fellow BBWs/BHMs who are dating, does a man/woman need to be an FA for you to consider him/her? I'm certainly looking for the whole package, but it's just insanely wonderful to be with someone who is wise enough to be attracted to you and your lovely, big, curvy body! I don't want to make everything about my fat (or at least I don't think I do), but recently I met a guy who wants to date me and proclaims that he doesn't care about body type because he's more about personality. I have to admit, even though I like him, there's a little voice inside me that says that I'm too beautiful to settle for an "inner beauty trumps all" mentality! lol! Am I being shallow?